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I'm being nosy again.

So here's a question for the ladies about relationships and sex.

So let's say that you're in a relationship, and that it's a heterosexual relationship. Your partner of some time dvelops an illness which makes him functionally disabled in the erection department, but he is more than willing to please you orally or in whatever way you would like except intercourse. He is still able to achieve orgasms, but not maintain a hard enough erection for insertion. Now think that the illness may be long-term and the damage may be permanent.

Would this be important to you?
Would you consider taking on another lover to satify your craving for intercourse?
Would you consider other options? If so, what?
Would you consider leaving your partner for (ahem) firmer pastures?

Feel free to post anonymously if you are wanting some privacy, but please let me know what you think.


Dec. 8th, 2003 04:40 am (UTC)
Difficult question to answer hypotehically with a lot of truth. I would totally depend on the relationship and the man involved. My logical mind would tell me that if I'm in a committed realtionship with him that sex would be important but there's piles of work arounds. Toys and such. I don't think I would go for poly just because I know for me it would be far too difficult emotionally. But there's also some medical procedures out there that would aid in acheiving an erection.

I dunno, I guess I'd say I'd really try everything before I ended the relationship.

But such a thing is easy to say when I'm not really in the emotional involveement of the moment.

Like I said, I could say no to the last, but in the actual situation I might act differently.

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