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I'm being nosy again.

So here's a question for the ladies about relationships and sex.

So let's say that you're in a relationship, and that it's a heterosexual relationship. Your partner of some time dvelops an illness which makes him functionally disabled in the erection department, but he is more than willing to please you orally or in whatever way you would like except intercourse. He is still able to achieve orgasms, but not maintain a hard enough erection for insertion. Now think that the illness may be long-term and the damage may be permanent.

Would this be important to you?
Would you consider taking on another lover to satify your craving for intercourse?
Would you consider other options? If so, what?
Would you consider leaving your partner for (ahem) firmer pastures?

Feel free to post anonymously if you are wanting some privacy, but please let me know what you think.

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wiredferret
Dec. 8th, 2003 06:19 am (UTC)
I was in a situation where I couldn't have sex of any kind at all nuh-uh whatsover for three months. It was a long three months.

It made me realize that for me, sex and intercourse are shortcuts to intimacy, but not the only way to acheive intimacy.

And then I was the partner with problems, and I found that patience, humor, and willingness to spend time really make all the difference.

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