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Question of the day #2122:

When does flirting go too far?
How do you deal with it when it does?

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jmanna
Jul. 7th, 2004 02:17 pm (UTC)
When they say stop and you don't.

With a myriad of subtleties along the way.
jmanna
Jul. 7th, 2004 05:28 pm (UTC)
How do I deal with it? Depends. If I don't know the person well, I just do the dodge. Avoid 'em or make sure there's always some kind of distance. For the less astute I flat out say 'Don't touch me' or some such.

For friends, tougher. I flirt but when I feel like the flirt is carrying more weight then it should I pull back. I hate to lead people on and I've had such miserible experiences with guys misreading 'outoging' for 'interested'.
lexinatrix
Jul. 7th, 2004 02:32 pm (UTC)
When I stop feeling good as a result, and start feeling like an object.

Usually I find an excuse to leave the person's presence, and remain inaccessible. Retreating to the safety of public or large groups works too.

I try to be nice about communicating my discomfort, but there have been some occasions where harshness was the only thing that worked. By harshness I mean drinks in the face or calling a bouncer to have the person removed.
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