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Dec. 15th, 2004

Oddness today at work.

Received an e-mail, an unexpected e-mail.

I had to disappoint somebody in a big way. Somebody who put a lot on the line to ask me a question.

It was a question I was surprised that she asked, though in retrospect, I probably shouldn't have been.

I am disturbed by this.

In an attempt to be clear: I am not by any means ready to get involved with anyone on any serious level. I doubt that I will be for some time to come, probably years. I have a lot of stuff to work through yet.

That doesn't mean that I can't be friends, or date, or just do fun things together. But if I don't want to get serious, it's nothing personal.

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mesmericone
Dec. 16th, 2004 02:04 pm (UTC)
Oh, wow. What I would do even w/girls that you know is just straight out and tell them that you aren't looking for a "realtionship" (I can't spell this morning) yet.

I know that I have always appreciated guys who were straight forward w/me. Of course, I don't read hints well either!

*hugs* Good luck and will you be at the party Saturday?
magicmarmot
Dec. 16th, 2004 03:35 pm (UTC)
I'll be down in Des Moines this weekend. I need some downtime.
mesmericone
Dec. 16th, 2004 03:37 pm (UTC)
Oh, that is a bummer but totally can understand! *hugs* Hang in there.....Hopefully, we will be able to meet at least sometime before CONvergence?
magicmarmot
Dec. 16th, 2004 04:32 pm (UTC)
It's likely that I will be up sometime in the winter or spring for some social activities, but I don't have any concrete plans at all.
lexinatrix
Dec. 17th, 2004 12:59 am (UTC)
Better to disappoint someone now than compromise yourself and your needs for even the shortest time.

You've had enough of that, I'd wager.
magicmarmot
Dec. 17th, 2004 01:01 am (UTC)
Aye. And I know that. It's just cascading into other things.
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