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Quandry: Craving the intimate interactions of human flesh, but still feeling too vulnerable to become emotionally involved.

Resolution: the concept of fuckbuddies has come up more than once. Kind of a crude name for the concept, but essentially we're talking about a friend who is amenable to sexplay, but isn't looking to get involved in a relationship.

(Bear in mind that we are talking responsible and consensual sexplay here.)

Is this a good idea? On one hand, there is the satisfaction of the need for physical intimacy and human touch, the advancement of trust and exposure to a level of vulnerability that may be necessary for healing.
On the other, with vulnerability comes risk. Risk of emotional involvement, risks of one person wanting to continue when the other person doesn't, risk of hurt feelings.


Fuckbuddies: good or bad idea

Hell yes! There are times when sex and friendship go great together.
3(15.0%)
It can be a really good idea, as long as everyone plays by the rules and you don't get further involved.
10(50.0%)
Sounds fun, but it really never works out. Feelings always get hurt.
4(20.0%)
Absolutely not. Never mix friends and sex. It's a great way to lose a friend.
1(5.0%)
Jeez. Just pay for a hooker already.
2(10.0%)

Comments

burnunit
Dec. 30th, 2004 08:02 pm (UTC)
If you don't eat your meat, you can't have any pudding.
Quandry: Craving the intimate interactions of human flesh,


Naturally, my eyes processed it this way:

eat your meat, Quandry: craving human flesh

that's a whole different problem!
magicmarmot
Dec. 30th, 2004 09:28 pm (UTC)
Which brings up a rather off-the-wall question: is eating human flesh illegal? This is assuming that the killing and processing was done by somebody else.
mesmericone
Dec. 30th, 2004 09:40 pm (UTC)
Go to http://www.crimelibrary.com

It is rather interesting.....
burnunit
Dec. 30th, 2004 10:06 pm (UTC)
I believe the answer is, yes, it's illegal.

article from a crime library

apparently it wasn't outlawed explicitly in Germany (cf. the sexual consensual cannibalism case)

I can't find any case law at Findlaw or in the other searchable US Code sites. Perhaps they figured the Framers wanted this matter left up to the states :-p

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