remind those of us who are not involved with someone that we are
specifically damaged and unless we find someone we will never be
I've deliberately taken myself out of the running for the time being. A
conscious decision made some time ago, knowing full well that I need to
be alone for a while to deal with the crap of life.
When life give you lemons, make lemonade. But what do you do when life
takes a big, shiny dump on your head? Try and convince the general
populace that a Shit Hat is the in thing this year?
[I had a bunch of cranky ex-relationship stuff here, but decided that I
shouldn't bother with it anymore. What's done is done.]
The important thing is that I'm able to say that I would rather be alone
than be in a relationship with someone that isn't right. Now
finding the right one (or ones; I still haven't ruled out poly)
is another thread entirely. Despite all the bum and bluster, I am
content to wait until I'm more ready before I consider the possibility,
and knowing me it's probably gonna be something that's gonna sneak up
and bite my ass. And even that is probably literal; I tend to be
attracted to out-of-the-ordinary women.
In the meantime, I will continue to wear my Chapeau du Merde and
pretend I am tragically hip.
But you know you love me for it.