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You know, I really don't like feeling like I'm being judged.

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mle292
Nov. 20th, 2005 11:24 pm (UTC)
Yes, it sucks ass - and not in a good way.

Good luck, I hope it all turns out okay.


ignusfaatus
Nov. 21st, 2005 01:23 am (UTC)
surely thats a hampering thing to feel. life is too complex for that.
windelina
Nov. 21st, 2005 02:31 am (UTC)
*shrug* I try to accept it, move on, and ignore it. Because, really? It's happening all the time. You walk down the street, some person drives by in their car and thinks "That's an ugly coat." You go to the grocery store, someone looks in your basket as they walk by and think "I would never buy that brand."
People judge and it happens all the time.

What sucks is when you're judged by non-strangers, and especially by non-strangers who aren't as good as you.
*wink*
Love ya.
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avindair
Nov. 21st, 2005 02:34 pm (UTC)
As one who has suffered his fair amount of "being judged" lately, I second Yiddle's thoughts.

As I mentioned on the phone to MagicMarmot last night, I wish I had SpousalUnit's ability to genuinely not give a shit what people think about her. She just doesn't care. She is who she is, and that's that. Me? Not so much.
lucyruthe
Nov. 21st, 2005 03:05 pm (UTC)
Yeah, it sucks ass when someone assumes they have the right to evaluate you and your life. Unfortunately, it is common. Hopefully you have friends that you can expect better of. That tends to make it easier when faced with a difficult person/situation.

Good luck. Remember that there are people out there who are able to see you and accept you for who you are, not who they want you to be. Such folk are rare and incredibly valuable. But they're out there, even if not quite as vocal as the opposition.
lulu658
Nov. 21st, 2005 06:01 pm (UTC)
I think Bette Davis once said: "When I was younger I used to worry if people liked me. Now I'm more concerned with whether or not I like *them*."
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